Money Baggage
Let's face it, money is not generally the first thing you think about with respect to compatibility when you meet your spouse.
But... it cannot be avoided. Ultimately, money questions will have to be faced if you have any type of long-term relationship. You bring your money baggage and your spouse brings theirs.
Money baggage comes in many forms. Some bags are heavier than others. Perception of money baggage differs too. What may seem "heavy" to you, may not be "heavy" to the one bringing it.
The key is not to avoid it. Open up all the bags and unpack them, preferably before you get married. Be honest in your feelings. If you are not open and honest from the beginning, it will put a strain on the relationship later. Come to an agreement of what to do about past money baggage and how to handle money going forward, together. Get on the same page. Re-visit as necessary to make sure your plan to go forward is on track.
Although, it may be scary, unexpected, or maybe even easy, when you know what to expect going forward, then do the work needed to get rid of the baggage. That way, money doesn't have to be the main focus because of pressure. It can be put to the side and just work through as you planned so you can concentrate on each other and the things that made you truly fall in love.
You can master your money... and I can help!
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