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Talk About Money
According to statistics, healthy marriages talk about money. When we were single, we didn't have to consult anyone. The big stuff, we often asked our parents about or a trusted friend. But now, we are sharing everything with each other.
Most likely, you and your spouse have different perspectives when it comes to earning, saving and spending money. This is as it should be, right? If we were exactly the same, one of us wouldn't really be necessary. We each have different strengths and weaknesses and when we recognize what those are, we can help each other more effectively. Marriage is not a competition and it's not about being right or wrong.
But it is going to take communication in order to truly know what the other person is thinking. We can't just guess or make assumptions. We need to talk and ask questions. Be sure to set a time each week to talk about budgets and expenses and dreams and goals. Make it at a time where you can minimize distractions. It could be after the kids go to bed or before they wake up in the morning. Be intentional in setting up this time and don't skip it if something else comes up. Stick to it.
What are you willing to do for a healthy marriage? Let's get talking.
If you need someone to help get get this conversation started, I can help.
You can master your money... and I can help!
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